Meghan Markle Faces Backlash Over Birthday Video Featuring Prince Harry
Meghan Markle has faced backlash over her latest birthday video, with journalist Dan Wakeford claiming that the Duchess of Sussex appeared to portray her marriage to Prince Harry as part of a carefully curated public image.
The Duchess marked her 45th birthday on August 4 with family and close friends at the couple’s home in Montecito, California.
Meghan later gave followers a glimpse inside the private celebration by sharing a video filmed at the luxury property. The footage showed the Duchess and Harry enjoying a relaxed moment together in their kitchen.
Both appeared barefoot as they danced and celebrated Meghan’s special day, creating an intimate glimpse into their life away from royal duties and public appearances.
Meghan was seen wearing white pyjamas along with a birthday tiara, adding a playful touch to the informal celebration.
However, one detail of her outfit quickly attracted particular attention. The Duchess wore a T-shirt emblazoned with the words, “It’s Giving Mrs.”
The choice of clothing prompted commentary about the way Meghan presents her relationship with Harry publicly, particularly because the video appeared to place their marriage at the centre of the birthday celebration.
Journalist Dan Wakeford subsequently criticised the presentation, suggesting that Meghan was attempting to “sell” her marriage through the carefully selected content.
Speaking on The Royals Uncensored podcast, Wakeford argued that the video appeared more deliberate than spontaneous.
“It’s like everything with Meghan, it feels like a curated content strategy,” he said.
The journalist went on to question whether the footage genuinely represented a natural private moment between the couple.
“It didn’t feel natural; it felt very orchestrated,” Wakeford claimed.
He particularly pointed to Meghan’s T-shirt as evidence of what he viewed as a broader strategy surrounding her public image.
“The ‘It’s Giving Mrs’ T-shirt – it shows everything about what Meghan is right now, still very much selling the marriage as the brand,” Wakeford said.
He ultimately argued that the perceived lack of spontaneity could work against Meghan rather than strengthen her public image.
“It didn’t feel natural, and that’s Meghan’s big problem,” he added.
The comments have added to the wider discussion surrounding the Sussexes’ approach to sharing their personal lives with the public. Since stepping back from royal duties, Harry and Meghan have increasingly controlled when and how glimpses of their family life are made public.
The couple have previously shared carefully selected photographs and videos from their home, celebrations and professional projects, allowing them to maintain a degree of control over their public narrative.
Meghan’s birthday video appeared to follow a similar approach, giving followers a lighthearted glimpse into her relationship with Harry while also highlighting the couple’s private life in Montecito.
The appearance of Harry in the footage was particularly notable because the Duke has generally maintained a lower social media profile than his wife. Meghan has become the more visible of the two when it comes to personal lifestyle content.
For supporters of the Duchess, the video may simply have been an affectionate birthday moment shared with followers. The relaxed dancing and playful clothing could be viewed as an attempt to show a more informal side of the couple.
Critics, however, have interpreted the same footage differently, arguing that the carefully selected details made the moment appear deliberately staged.
There is no indication that Harry objected to appearing in the video, and neither he nor Meghan has publicly responded to Wakeford’s criticism.
Ultimately, Meghan’s birthday post has once again highlighted the divided reactions that often surround the Sussexes’ public appearances. While some viewers may see the video as a genuine celebration of their relationship, others continue to question how much of the couple’s personal image is carefully managed for public consumption.




